With hundreds of thousands of weddings under our belt, we’ve met every sort of guest you can imagine. Over time, you begin to notice the patterns: the familiar characters who add colour, charm and the occasional wildcard.
So, what kind of guest are you? Take the quiz to find out if you're more Dancefloor Royalty or Wildcard Cousin...
Question 1:
When you get a wedding invite, what’s your first move?
A. RSVP immediately
B. Forget for 3–8 business weeks
C. Check if you’re allowed to bring someone
D. Add it straight to your spreadsheet
E. Wonder what the lighting will be like for photos
Question 2:
How do you feel about giving a speech?
A. Only if asked
B. Already writing one
C. Absolutely not
D. Only if there’s a microphone and a spotlight
E. I’ll be too busy taking photos / dancing
Question 3:
Your approach to gifts is:
A. “What’s on the list?”
B. “What’s meaningful to me?”
C. “Something practical but unexpected”
D. “Something personalised… maybe overly so”
E. “Oops, is there a list?”
Question 4:
How do you behave on the dancefloor?
A. I warm up slowly
B. I am the dancefloor
C. I cheer from the sidelines
D. Depends on the champagne
E. Watching through my phone lens
Question 5:
How organised are you… honestly?
A. Colour-coded calendar
B. Mostly vibes
C. I try, but chaos finds me
D. Organisation is my love language
E. I’ll get to it… eventually
And the results...
*Insert drumroll
Mostly A’s — The Early RSVPer / The Sidekick
Organised, reliable, everyone's favourite kind of guest.
Mostly B’s — The Late Responder / Wildcard Cousin
A delightful mix of chaos and charm. No one knows what to expect, and that’s the fun.
Mostly C’s — The +1 Mystery / The Ghost Guest
You keep everyone guessing — in a mysterious, slightly chaotic way.
Mostly D’s — The Sentimental Speech Giver / Dietary Diplomat
You come prepared. Sometimes overly prepared. Always memorable.
Mostly E’s — The Instagram Curator / Dancefloor Royalty
You’re here for the vibes, the moments, and the perfect angle.
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